Friends
Why Friendship Matters More Than You Think
Friends feel like a nice extra in a busy life. The research says they're closer to a foundation, for your health, your mood and how long you live.
How Many Close Friends Do You Need?
You don't need a crowd. Most of the good that friendship does comes from a small circle of people you can actually count on.
Do You Really Become Like the People Around You?
The old saying has real evidence behind it. Habits, moods and choices travel through friendships, in both directions.
Is Loneliness Really as Bad as Smoking?
You've probably heard that loneliness is as deadly as 15 cigarettes a day. The real finding is serious, but the headline version leaves out important words.
How to Make Friends as an Adult
Making friends after school isn't about personality. It's about time, repetition and being the one who invites.
How to Choose Your Friends Carefully
Most friendships happen by accident. A few questions can help you choose the ones that shape you most, on purpose.
How to Keep Friendships Alive When Life Gets Busy
Most friendships don't end. They fade. A few small, regular habits keep them alive through the busiest seasons of life.
How to Step Back From a Friendship That Holds You Back
Some friendships pull you away from the life you're trying to build. You can step back with kindness, without drama and without burning bridges.
Do Your Friends Affect Your Income?
A large study of friendships across America found a striking link between who people know and where they end up. Here's what it means and what it doesn't.
How to Find a Mentor
Most good mentors aren't found by asking a stranger to be your mentor. They grow out of small, specific questions and showing you follow through.
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